Take a moment and ask your spouse to participate in this quiz to explore the level of enjoyment you can experience. The quiz presents simple ideas and scenarios for him to respond to using a scale that reflects his feelings towards real-life situations.
Use the following scale to rate the answers based on your inclination to engage in these scenarios:
1 – I dislike that. 2 – I enjoy imagining it, but not actually doing it. 3 – It’s exciting to think about it. I would be interested in trying it. 4 – The thought of it greatly arouses me. I can’t wait to do it. 5 – That’s my deepest desire!
At the bottom, you’ll find the scoring key. Print it out, mix a drink for your spouse, and have them complete the quiz.
Remember, the ratings should reflect your thoughts on engaging in these activities in real life.
- You and your spouse are walking by the beach (or pool). Your spouse is wearing a very sexy and revealing outfit, and they attract the attention of other people.
- Your spouse is sharing stories about their past experiences with you.
- Your spouse receives a flirtatious text or sext from someone else.
- Your spouse asks you to assist in taking sexually suggestive or nude photos that they can share with others.
- There is a person who is interested in your spouse, and your spouse is behaving provocatively towards them.
- Your spouse is changing clothes with the windows open, and a neighbor is watching.
- You, your spouse, and some male friends are in a private hot tub. Then your spouse decides to remove their bra and remain topless.
- Your spouse ignores you when they speak to someone they are considering having sex with.
- Your spouse is interested in having a threesome and invites another couple to your house to engage in sexual activities while you can only watch.
- Your spouse is having sex with another woman while you are tied up and blindfolded.
- Your spouse is having sex with another man, and you are watching as they engage in unprotected intercourse.
- Another man is having sex with your spouse and asks if he can ejaculate in her mouth, knowing that she will likely kiss you afterward.
- A man asks if he can remove his condom and engage in unprotected sex with your spouse, with the intention of ejaculating inside her. Your spouse looks at you for an answer.
- After another man has had sex with your partner, you notice his semen beginning to leak out of her, and she asks you to give her oral stimulation to achieve orgasm.
- You touch your partner’s vagina, which is filled with another man’s semen.
- You feel a sense of responsibility and duty to orally clean your partner’s mouth, breasts, or vagina after you or another man has ejaculated there.
- Your spouse instructs you to masturbate onto your lover’s penis to use as lubrication for penetration.
- Your spouse instructs you to lie on your back and perform oral sex on them while they are being penetrated from behind.
- Your partner engages in sexual activity with someone else and calls you on the phone so you can hear it.
- Your partner has sex with someone else and returns home with a wet vagina, telling you about their experience.
- You shave your partner’s pubic hair before their date to ensure they are smooth.
- The only time you get to have sex with your partner is when they want you to experience how their lover has stretched their vagina.
- In front of you, your partner discusses how they are allowed to engage with other men while you are not.
- You find the idea of consuming another person’s semen from your partner’s vagina arousing.
- You engage in swinging You engage in swinging with another couple, and while the other woman is appealing, your primary interest lies in observing the sexual interactions between all three of them.
- You assist your partner in selecting their outfit before they go out on a date.
- You take pleasure in planning a recurring schedule for your partner to have dedicated date nights or hotwife-only weekends, and you manage the calendar for them.
- On date nights, your partner has you drop them off and pick them up afterward.
- Your partner instructs you to give their lover a few quick hand job strokes to maintain their erection before inserting his penis into your partner, and then you are asked to leave the room.
- You have no qualms about encountering some ejaculate if it brings happiness and a feeling of love, validation, and pampering to your partner. After all, is it really that different from sharing saliva on a shared beer bottle?
Scoring Key: For each scenario, your spouse should rate their level of interest based on the scale provided. Add up the scores to gauge their overall preferences and desires.
Please note that everyone’s preferences and boundaries may differ, and open communication and consent are essential in any intimate relationship.
Scoring:
110 and above: You are a valued and cherished Hotwife, embracing the full cuckold lifestyle!
95-90: You are an ultimate cuckold, embracing the cuckold lifestyle with great enthusiasm.
85-80: You are a basic cuckold, enjoying and embracing aspects of the cuckold lifestyle.
75-70: You identify as a cuckold, showing a significant interest in the cuckold lifestyle.
65-60: You have a desire to be a cuckold, expressing a willingness to explore aspects of the cuckold lifestyle.
55-50: You enjoy sharing your wife with others, identifying as a wife sharer.
Below 45: You have limited interest in the cuckold lifestyle.
